By the time Annie was 3 months old my mom had been hit by a truck, I had visited her (with Annie in tow most of the time) once or twice a day for most of 3 week stay, we had driven to Utah and back, and we had gotten my mom settled in at home and she was beginning to be allowed to put weight on her feet and get around on her own more, and I felt like life was back to (our new) normal with the new baby and I had a handle on things. Here we are with Ryan going to be 4 months old next week, no life-threatening injuries, no big trips, nothing really out of the ordinary going on the last several months, and I still haven't found our new normal. Or maybe I have, and it's just chaos. ;) I have at least gotten to the point where I can make dinner without too much trauma or screaming most days (or maybe I just tune out the screaming better now), and we have clean clothes to wear, even if they are in laundry baskets waiting to be folded half the time. So I guess that's progress. And one day I'll be able to bake something again without waiting for sometime when Jake is around to help me juggle the kids.
And here is the main problem keeping me from being able to do anything useful around the house:
(We finally got his tax deduction t-shirt picture that we also have of Rachel and Annie.)
He's a cute problem to have, at least. :) He and Rachel are identical in their sleep habits at this age. I often wish it were Annie he mirrored, since Annie could fall asleep so easily all on her own. With Rachel I would spend what felt like forever bouncing on the exercise ball to get her to sleep, then longer holding her before she was in a deep enough sleep to stay asleep when I laid her down. Then she would often wake halfway through her nap and if I caught it quick enough I could get her back to sleep, but if I wasn't quick enough she was cranky and had to be held until the next naptime cycle began. Ryan is about the same. Only this time around I have 2 other kids vying for my time, making naps more difficult. I have high hopes that his naps will be getting more regular, longer, and easier in the near future. When he is awake he's usually pretty happy, though he does prefer to be held. A lot. :) At least he's a skinny boy.
Speaking of sleeping, this was where Rachel fell asleep the other night:
We had put Annie to bed early that night, so when Rachel asked if she could read a book before she went to sleep I told her she could read it in the hallway before she went to sleep. Apparently I should have been more clear that she should read in the hall, and sleep in her bed.
Rachel is enjoying her summer with a gymnastics class, which she LOVES. She did one session of swim lessons, and may do one last session starting next week, though we've had one "class" with me teaching and she improved more in that half hour than she did in two weeks. We'll probably have a couple more one on one lessons this week, then hope for a better teacher next session. Paying $2 for a 2 week session, you can't complain much if you get a bad teacher in the luck of the draw--I figure it's cheaper than taking her swimming twice, and she gets 8 times, so even if she learns nothing and has fun it's still worth the $2 and I can teach her myself when I take her swimming.
One worry I've had lately with Rachel is whether or not to get her tested for Celiac. She's had a lot of canker sores lately (which are related to Celiac Disease), and several random tummy aches. It doesn't seem like much, but I recently read a study where they screened 1st degree relatives of celiac patients and 20% of them tested postitive for the antibodies related to Celiac Disease, and had NO symptoms. The test is unreliable under 2 years old and less reliable until kids are between 5 and 7 from what I've read, so I'm torn between getting a blood test done (which will involve much weeping and wailing on Rachel's part since she HATES shots) and maybe have an inconclusive result or just putting her on a gluten-free diet for a month or so, then reintroducing gluten to see if she has a reaction. Or I could just do nothing until worse symptoms show up, but I'd rather just have a kid with Celiac Disease, than wait until more damage is done from not treating it and have her develop another autoimmune disease like lupus or type 1 diabetes, and still have Celiac Disease on top of it. So we're either doing the blood test or the GF diet, we just have to decide which one.
As for the last little kiddo:
She is starting to be a little talker, just in the last couple of weeks picking up more and more words, or at least enunciating them better so I can know what she's saying (though most everyone else still has a hard time). She LOVES jumping and carries the stool around the house, climbs up on it than says "jump, jump!" holding out her hands so I'll hold her hands as she jumps down. Or she takes the stool to the couch or ottoman and jumps from the stool onto the couch or ottoman (then from the ottoman to the couch).
Annie is getting to the fun age where she knows how to make us laugh and shows off for us and is really cute. Which is also the "fun" age of getting a mind of her own and throwing tantrums and biting and hitting and pinching. The cuteness balances out the monster-ness of the (almost) terrible twos, just as God intended, I'm sure. Annie loves nursery and occasionally randomly starts doing the hand motions for Popcorn Popping, or The Wise Man, and today even (kind of) sang her own abbreviated version for me. She loves sitting on the potty, though has has fewer successes lately than she did when she first got interested in the potty. Somehow, though, she always seems to know just when Ryan is almost asleep or really needs a diaper change himself and decides that is the exact moment to come tell me "Poopy! Paw-ee(potty)!" demanding that I remove her (very full) diaper so she can sit on the potty. If only I had 3 or 4 hands I would be just fine.
I think that mostly sums up life for now. Our floors are dirty, there are crayons scattered in the wierdest places around the house, and I have no hope for clean windows in the next decade, and if Rachel does have Celiac I have no idea when I will find time to make her baked snacks like muffins and granola bars and such, since I have only baked once, I think, since Ryan was born. We're still adjusting, I guess, and we're getting to the new normal bit by bit. The one thing I do really love about not being able to get anything done because Ryan is in my arms so much throughout the day is that I sit and play or read with the girls more often than I probably otherwise would. I have no "I'll be there in 5 minutes when I finish _______" excuse since I don't often get around to starting ______. :)