February is La Fiesta de los Vaqueros here in Tucson. AKA the Rodeo. The kids even get two days off at the end of the month for Rodeo Break. Ryan got into the spirit early with my boots, which fit him more like fishing waders.
A lot of this goes on around here:
Tackling and wrestling and chasing and punching and kicking. Sometimes in fun, sometimes in anger. We're trying to let the kids work out their own problems a bit more because stepping in to break up their fights isn't solving anything. It works sometimes, and when it doesn't I've given up on time outs most of the time for fights between siblings (it's mostly reserved for disrespect aimed at Mom or Dad now). The new winner that seems to work a lot better is "Take a break! Everyone in their own rooms in 10-9-8..." They drop whatever they're fighting over and run to their own rooms and lock everyone else out while they play with their own toys. Of course it wouldn't work for Rachel and Annie, since they share a room, but since the two that fight all the time are Ryan and Annie, it works perfectly.
And in good news in that arena, we have actually had a break through this month with Ryan and Annie. There have been several days where they have played together in the same room with the same toys for over an hour without any yelling or fighting. That has not happened since before Ryan started crawling, I think. That must be one of the best things that has come out of February. The month of love, I guess. :)
Speaking of which...
We celebrated Valentine's Day with a few little surprises for the kids, and a date night for Jacob and me. We planned to go to Outback Steakhouse for dinner, but didn't actually plan it out by calling or getting there early, and apparently on Valentine's Day a lot of people go out to dinner. Weird. Since we weren't willing to wait forever for dinner we ended up at 5 Guys for some tasty burgers instead. I got a milkshake, so it was a pretty decent Valentine's date anyway.
I say give her the hard stuff. It's good for her to miss problems and get used to not being perfect. :) In the meantime we are happy to have such a bright girl on our hands.
Her big homework project last month was to make a timeline.
Typically Rachel tries to get all her homework done on the first day of the week so she can have more free time after school the other days. So she was a little frustrated to realize that this project wasn't something she could whip out in 15 minutes. But after making a plan of what steps she needed to do she did a great job picking out events and pictures that were important from her life. And it was good for her to have something a little more challenging than her regular homework that she does whip through in 15 minutes for the whole week.
February was an incredibly warm month. With temperatures in the end of January hovering around 70-80 degrees it was hard to imagine that it would get cold again before spring officially arrived. And it hasn't gotten cold again. Unless you count a couple of days last week when the highs were barely in the 60s (we do count that as cold, actually). With no freezing temps in sight we spent a lot of time out in the back yard working in the garden. Most everything is planted now and some plants are beginning to peek out. The kids wavered between helping me plant seeds and this:
They do love the play set. Even Megan loves her swing and will be pretty content sitting there watching the kids run around as long as they come give her a push or two when she yells out for attention (they happily comply).
For Rodeo break we headed to Reid Park to play on the big playground they have there. McKenzie and Peyton and Grandma met us there.
I missed out on getting any pictures of the actual playground, but for the first 10-15 minutes that we were there Annie would randomly call out every few minutes, "Mom! This is AWESOME!" It was. We had a picnic near the cement turtles, then went off to find some live turtles.
Some would come to the edge of the pond and sun on the rocks, while we could see many more out swimming in the water. There were ducks, too, and all the kids were very happy to watch the wildlife.
(Grandma was there, too--I would not be brave enough to attempt that outing with 6 kids alone.)
After the park we headed to Little Anthony's for ice cream.
After waiting and waiting and waiting we finally got our ice cream just before we were ready to give up and leave. We had ordered the Wipe Out, which is 14 scoops of ice cream on a brownie, with chocolate sauce, pineapple topping, whipped topping, Twinkies, and Nilla Wafers. It was delicious. With 4 kids (Ryan got his own gluten-free sundae) and 3 adults (Grandpa joined us) eating we almost were able to finish it off. But not quite.
It was a fun way to wrap up the month.
As for Megan this month, she has become a crawling champ and an eating champ. She eats a lot of table foods now if they're soft enough to gum (cooked potatoes, peas, strawberries, bread, etc.) and prefers food that she can pick up to baby food we try to feed her on a spoon. And today she finally drank formula out of a bottle for a whole feeding! Woohoo! I can now run an errand without timing it perfectly around her feeding schedule. Or even, wonder of wonders, go to the temple in Mesa (a 6-7 hour round trip) and leave her in the care of my parents. A nursing baby who will take a bottle every once in a while is great!
She is also beginning to try to climb/pull up a bit. She doesn't really try to stand up, but likes to get to kneeling position. She'll be 8 months old in 3 days, and soon I'm sure she'll be pulling up to standing. Another month and a half and she'll probably be walking. Crazy baby.
























